Why be a butt-munch?

I don't understand people. At all. I am a nice guy, laid back, easy going, never hurt anyone and I am almost always considerate of others.

Heck, I had a parking decal from a company that someone I carpooled with worked for, so that when we carpooled, I could park in their lot. One day, they were not with me, they took their own vehicle. I parked elsewhere. When they asked why I didn't park in their parking lot, I said that they were not in the vehicle with me and they were using their parking spot. They said, "Nobody would know the difference." I said, "I would."

I mean, I try to do the right thing.

Then there are some people who are just mean and spiteful towards me for absolutely no good reason. As far as I know, my biggest "Crime" has been to have the audacity to be upset and complain when someone has done me horribly wrong.

I've had a couple people do really nasty things to me. So, being very upset, I called them on it somewhat publicly. Not even going into details or talking about specifics. Suddenly, I am the bad guy. My wife breaks our vows and throws me out in favor of a panty-wearing bi (yeah, right) boi and that is all fine and good, she is a saint. I call her a sadistic bitch and "Woah, there, buddy, that is just uncalled for, never speak to me again."

A girlfriend of at least a year calls me up to come over. When I get there, all my stuff and things I've given her is packed up and she ninja-dumps me. I load my stuff and go home. I give it time to let things cool down and ask why. She pretty much tells me she was cheating on me, then tells me to never contact her, her friends or family again. I dare to be hurt and complain about such crappy behavior and bam!, I am the Evil One incarnate.

Years go by and people are still talking about what a bad person I am. Still calling me names and generally being poopy-heads. Why? I never did anything wrong. I never hurt them in any way. Hell, the only thing I really did was stand up for myself, tell the truth and complain about being done wrong.

I'd still like for someone to explain this particular behavior to me. Heck, I've said before and I will say again, if anyone thinks I've done them wrong - contact me and I'll try to make it right or explain things.

Okay, so, after a lot of though, I've determined that I am just sensitive. I hate it when people are unjustly mean to me or have unjust opinions of me. Its a justice thing. Its like when the bad person in the movie gets off scott free and the hero gets put in jail. It is just plain wrong. :(